I just need to get better at reading my w's signals so I can tell what is working and what is not.
Btw, I have been here before and I have received feedback that I should not try to figure out what my w is thinking; that leads to not being detached. But on the other hand, if I don't try to interpret my w's actions, how can I figure out if what I am doing is working or not?
Mach1 has told me many times, "this isn't a game, but sometimes it plays like one." I think it's a razor thin line, and you seem to be approaching it more as a game. Stop thinking "is this working?" and start thinking "what do I want...right now?" This isn't about manipulating your W into wanting you back.
Originally Posted By: labug
Look at it as having fun with someone you enjoy being with and let it go.
Completely agree with bug on this one and that's basically what I'm trying to say above.
