She bought the gun, bought the ammo and loaded the gun. I'm not going to pull the trigger for her.
I think some of us see as the trigger being pulled as different things.
For me, my W pulled the trigger when she decided to lie to me and left the piecing process after 3 weeks and started an R with OM2.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14