Hi FY! It was not my idea at all. It was S9 and W! I argued for football. In the end it was just w and me watching.

I have no clue what to do, honestly. I don't know whether to confront her and say we agreed to start dividing assets/bills/etc, and to tell the boys the truth, or to wait and let her lead on this. A large part of me wants to force her to do it and let her have what she keeps asking for. I'm tired of the confusing msgs she sends to me and, especially, to my boys.

She showed up at midnight and went straight to bed in the guest room. It took a lot of will power not to go make a move. Torture lol


M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later