RL, that is truly amazing to receive the anniversary message from your H with these words.

I’m glad you are having a good time. I wish I would be there, in the country, drinking tea and taking walks. Have you had more Indian food? It is very popular there, well at least in bog cities.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state