My wife of 4years left the house 6 weeks ago. The 2nd day she called me saying she wanted divorce. I pleaded and she agreed to counseling and seeing our priest. She ultimately moved out and decided on divorce. I'm here to stop this from happening. My DB coach is giving me good advice plus the stuff I am reading on this BB. I've been able to see my child and I made the mistake of being emotional and needy. This past week I've been cordial and talk only about our child. I brought my wife a box of diapers which seemed to surprise her. I'll continue to follow the advice of my coach and learn from the vets. My goal is to be a better person and, hopefully, save my marriage.