Separated, D filed, possible emotional affair

[Pudmuddle]

I don't think it's weird at all. I find myself looking at my H feeling sorry for that he is so lost and looking for love in all the wrong places. I want to show H that I can stick by him during even the toughest of times (even when he couldn't do that for me).

I touched his hand today and said are you okay? you look sad. and he immediately snapped to attention, like he was in the fog, and said no just tired. It is sad to see someone you love so confused and making bad choices.