One year and one month after he married ow he left her with no explanation other than he just didn't want to be with her any more. Apparently she has no idea what happened. That was exactly what he did to me, although it was after 15 months of us being married.
I feel quite shocked really. I don't really know why. I read an email that she sent to a mutual friend and it was almost exactly the same as the emails and communications I had to send out after we split.
I seem to be having a fair few emotions. Part of me is worried about him (?!), part of me feels sorry for her that she is being put through what I went through (but if you will knowingly get tangled up with a married man you will get burnt). But a huge part of me feels a bit vindicated as I spent so long raking over myself trying to work out what I did wrong - what I did to make him reject me like that? Was I a boring person? Was I not pretty enough? Did I over nurse him through his illness? And it turns out... it wasn't me.
I had come to that conclusion myself a couple of years ago now. I accept my faults and what I contributed but there is something obviously very wrong inside him.
I am now so fulfilled in teaching and my change of career and am so happy that I have had the travel opportunities that I have had rather than being married to him. I am so grateful now that he left me and I was forced to change my life's course. I never would have had such adventures! Still, I can't believe he did it again!!
