Is it weird to feel bad for your WAS? My W - she's so lost... She is now in her own, no family nearby, has walked away from all her friends, "single" mom now when I used to take care of, can't get full time work, very little money, now up to eyeballs in debt.

Sure, its her stupid choices, but still... She's only been in new place 2 weeks, and already back to sleeping a lot. (depression)

Makes me sad... But I know I'm a "fixer", probably part of the reason we're in this mess. Sigh.