So, another new thread started getting to be a pro at this? That can be good or bad I guess as this is number 4. However, with the start of this new thread a much better attitude prevails. Oh the sitch hasn't changed much but, after 5 months you either sink or begin to come up for air and start swimming. I've chose the latter. I honestly dont know how this will turn out when it's all said and done. Yes, the odds are against an R for most. And yes, we all would like to believe our sitch's are different and that there could be a R. What I am starting to understand however, is that anything can happen.