Time is on our side

[nero]

hey hi linda-

glad to hear from you- sorry i missed you before you left. total (as usual) $hitshowhere- what a mess- the stinking hostility and bs- oh well huh?

had a good trip driving around- went to provincetown for a couple days- lenox area toljust stroll around, etc.

pretty pretty weather & days.

home now- left h at airport- sparing you the restof my morning- i'm gong to garden to destreess & let my hair dry a bit- hope your trip is good- sounds good already. the cats and bars and so forth- yay, we love beng somewhere differnt.

the thing i love about traveling is that eerything- (EVERYTHING) IS A NEW adventure. the wonderful stuff is wonderful- the wierd or even downright bad stuff makes the BEST omg Travel stories in the end. alllll good

i'm jealous (as usual) and yay fornotes from h. it's something man.

i was close one nite - thinking over your advice about just going for it- sex- no dice- ilooked at him and i just didn't want to- i just am still mad inside and it makes him not appealing to me. wonder if it wlol ever disappear? i couldn't forcemyself honestly-just ick. oh man-now this???? wtf??? i envy you your "flutter'- oh well- just hanging on here


xxoo

[BrightFuture]

RL, what a great start for your trip. I love Indian food. In my business I work with lots of Indian consultants, so we go for Indian food quite often.

It is interesting to know what is going through the mind of your friend. Maybe you learn something.

As for your H, he is definitely keeps the line of communication open. Doesn’t want to lose you? LOL.

[Whiterose]

Sounds like your flight was interesting and fun...great start!
Can't wait for more updates:)

have a glass of bubbly on your anniversary-enjoy!

[RosaLinda]

Hi all, sorry I haven't had a chance to carch up on all of your threads. I hope all is well. 

I'm having fun in rural England here. We saw Queen Victoria's summer home (and had "cream tea" which was yummy) and an old castle from 1260! And played darts in a pub last night. My friend took me to a Billy Fury tribute concert for my anniversary which was fun. And I got a short anniversay email from my H this morning:
     Many happy returns 
     With Love, H

I've had a few emails from him but he's been signing them "cheers, H" as if he's the one in the UK. "With love" is pretty amazing to me!! I had no expectations. Honestly truly amazing. 

I met my friend's H. He seems sweet and bewildered, the poor man, and she's REALLY nasty to him. So much so that it was embarassing. Which is strange, as she's normally lovely. I meet the OM tomorrow! I'll be wearing T2's goggles and taking notes on his clipboard. 

[Whiterose]

well, if nothing else Linda, it gives you (and then maybe us with what you can share) as to how an MLC mind works.

glad you're having fun and so happy for you that H acknowledged your anniversary.

cheers!
r

[job]

I'm glad he texted you on your anniversary...at least he's thinking about you a bit.

Enjoy your holiday and it will be interesting to see what you think of your friend's om! You are sitting in a seat where you can observe everything w/o actually being involved.

Enjoy!

[nero]

hey hi man-

glad to hear about your note from h - and i think it is SOMETHING kind of large - since he's there allll in the a land of wonderfulness and love and so on (ick ick ick)

glad the trip is going well- interesting really about the person you're staying with and her h- wow - i didn't realize about that sitch- soooo - you're inside the mlc side of things??? gonna be a lerning experience- you can enlighten us all.

i guess everyone alive "is a nice guy". i'm thinking of my uptight nazi sister telling me yesterday her h is "a nice guy" . what would make "nice guys" want to flay someone else alive and BLAME them and want to make them feel like garbage"

ya gotta wonder.

no prisoners huh? people and tempers and so on-

this woman does not get any of it-

glad you're havin fun.xxoo

[MileHigh]

RL, so glad to hear you are having a good time, and that H texted you from Narnia. Or the land of Oz. Or Neverland. Or wherever it is he's bunked off to.

[BrightFuture]

RL, that is truly amazing to receive the anniversary message from your H with these words.

I’m glad you are having a good time. I wish I would be there, in the country, drinking tea and taking walks. Have you had more Indian food? It is very popular there, well at least in bog cities.

[RosaLinda]

Hi everyone! Thanks for checking on me. I'm having a very interesting time living with a rural British family, and will be taking a bus up to London on Tuesday. A psychic tarot card reader told me that I have lost myself in my marriage, so I'm determined to find myself again and get strong before my H returns next month. It was amazing - this woman did not know me or my sitch, but told me that I have to be strong and have to get a life and do things that make me happy. That my husband is far away and when he comes back I must show him that I am strong and not needy and might be moving on. He has been walking all over me but if I am strong he will stop because he loves me and does not want to lose me. Maybe she could see I am a weak person but how did she know H is far away???? She was a DBing psychic

Thanks for all of your help and support. I could not have lived through this without you.

Time for a new thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2387492&#Post2387492