I'm glad he texted you on your anniversary...at least he's thinking about you a bit.
Enjoy your holiday and it will be interesting to see what you think of your friend's om! You are sitting in a seat where you can observe everything w/o actually being involved.
Enjoy!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.