Far as I know, he is broke and just managing to maintain a facade by spending all of the business cash flow in dribs and drabs as it comes in. And there is nothing by way of security that he can offer.
Makes me think that his 'offer' is just a strategy in some elaborate chess game that he envisions.
He keeps insisting that I must 'make him an offer' re property settlement.
My L has advised from the beginning that we can't make an offer until we have details of his assets and liabilities. But he won't give them - to me or to the court.
When Judge asked him to, he immediately filed a 'discontinuance'. Hence the next step was for judge to order an undefended trial.
Now, he has twisted things to make it appear that i am making him an offer re property settlement - by getting my L to write up a suggestion that XH says I told him i would accept.
I understand if no-one can follow this mess. It's ridiculous.
That blows!!
This situation must be difficult to not be bitter about. How are you managing/doing?? What are you doing to release your negative energy?
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
