on the edge...

[Cadet]

Although the advice here is to NOT file for divorce it is to
LET GO.

In fact most of us are divorced when the bomb drops, we just dont know it yet.

The thing it we are going to have to create a new marriage the old one is dead.

I usually can some up what you need to do with one word.

DETACH.

Start treating her "as if" you are divorced.
Whats that going to look like?

I see that you have posted again and are waiting for that post to show up.

Please keep posting on this thread.