When you say this do you feel there is a chance for my W and I?
I find it extremely hard to believe your life with her would ever be "normal". I feel she will continue along this path until she is faced with a life changing event. Unfortunately many people do not change (the type of behaviors your W exhibits) until something quite bad happens in their life.
Even if she were to attempt at reconciling, I honestly do not believe she has what it takes to stay in a committed MR. And whatever time she gave toward a R would be, at best, unpleasant for everyone.
That's just my opinion. I think you deserve so much more ........and better.
Thanks Sandi,
When you say something life changing/quite bad is that something as bad as a death?
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
