Acceptance...

[Live4myDay]

No...He's just so detached from me at this point. Like I said, I added my 2 cents worth, but he's pretty much out of the loop as it is. Kinda just nodded in agreement to whatever D said. He's in a different place right now and to add the dimension of his D is probably overwhelming for him with the demands from work and his social life with OW.

I don't think there will be any future between us. I am losing hope that's for sure.

On a 2nd note...I was so worked up over this "moving on" crap. Like there's something wrong with me that I still am not emotionally stable in all this. Like I'm such a loser that I haven't moved on.

I started my match.com account again and I have been asked on a date tmrw. We texted and emailed and finally called and talked on the phone. He's never been married (kinda a relief to me). We'll see how it goes.

Part of DETACHMENT. He's not ever coming back... so now its TOTAL acceptance I guess.

How do you all handle this after the divorce? Too much has passed and I honestly don't think a friendship is even in the big picture.

I think like in the book "I Do Again" it would have to take something from God to bring him to the understanding of his true feelings. But for a guy (sorry) I think that sex is a lot louder voice in their minds.

Are any of you that are divorced "friends" with the X at this point? and I don't mean cordial or nice, I mean truly friends?