Muse, you gotta get out of the habit of focusing on HIM. Stop it!
It's Friday night. You're a new woman. You gotta employ the new woman thinking. I'll help, since I'm eating my yummy taco salad in front of the baseball game (my perfect evening sans kids):
1. You don't sit around on a Friday night. Or at least admit that. A new age woman does NOT sit around and pine away next to the phone. Go to the mall. You know they sell movie tickets individually, right?
2. You start reconnecting with your girlfriends. You know, the ones who took a backseat when you got married? You make plans earlier in the week to get a social life. What's that hot yoga for anyway? Oh yeah, so you feel good about you.
3. If they can't do it, paint your house. Scrap book. Make Christmas presents. Go to farmers markets. Take French cuisine classes. Learn how to do woodworking.
Get busy with your GAL stuff. For goodness sake, stop looking at his train wreck and drop the expectations! Change this stuff up now!
Discover and celebrate the individual you were before him... You'll feel better about yourself no matter what happens. It's liberating. And damned attractive in a person.
Now, what's the plan for the rest of the weekend?
Betsey
P.s. It better not include anything with your H....
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
