When you say this do you feel there is a chance for my W and I?
I find it extremely hard to believe your life with her would ever be "normal". I feel she will continue along this path until she is faced with a life changing event. Unfortunately many people do not change (the type of behaviors your W exhibits) until something quite bad happens in their life.
Even if she were to attempt at reconciling, I honestly do not believe she has what it takes to stay in a committed MR. And whatever time she gave toward a R would be, at best, unpleasant for everyone.
That's just my opinion. I think you deserve so much more ........and better.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
