He is nuts... even when it appears that he might be doing something to bring matters to an end, it turns out to be an illusion.
His proposal turned out to be, in his eyes, MY proposal. If you can get your head around that.
He wrote to my lawyer that he had been talking to me last night and that I had indicated that I would be willing to accept an offer that involved X,Y, & Z.
Basically, what would be fair if he paid back almost all that he has taken from me.
He then instructed my L to write this up as a draft and said he would consider it.
Well, my L contacted me to say 'does he mean that he will pay mortgage in one lump sum or over next 5 years or over next 30 years or what?"
So I emailed XH to ask. His reply "whatever you think best".
I emailed back to say, well it depends on your intent, if you don't have finances to pay in 30 days, the draft will have to be different than if you intend to pay over 30 years.
His reply " It's your proposal and he's your lawyer. You work it out."
I felt completely worked over. He is a master of manipulative psychological abuse.
Seriously weird.
Via con dios, amigo (nervous grin as I step away).
