Personally I just refuse to do my W the favor of taking care of the D for her. I want her, our kids and all our friends and family to know that SHE left and SHE filed for D, not me. But you may feel differently, and that's fine if you do!
My view completely. This is how I am in my sitch.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
