just getting caught up, my H and I had a 40 min conversation Wednesday where I made it VERY clear that I will not fight the divorce. It doesn't matter to me if he loves or likes me. I told him how happy I was he had a place rented. I even offered him a piece of furniture. Oddly enough, he called me 4 times on Thursday. Once at 2:10 in the afternoon asking if S14 was home (ummm, no he's at school!) when he normally would only text me and even at that the barest of minimums. We had a civil chat about a few things too.
I'm going out dancing with the girls Saturday night, I love to dance!, and H is at a funeral for a man he used to work with.
I think that, like your wife, our change of mind has confused them and now they are wondering about things. Your db plan sounds great-keep it up! I'm following suit:)
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR