So I did reach out to D10 about breakfast - my parents are coming to visit and wanted to see the kids. I just made sure to tell her to ask W if it was OK, and she had to get permission from W first.

It was sad - this was like 3:45pm, and D10 couldn't ask because W was in bed sleeping, and we had both just picked up our kids. One of the issues we had prior to separation was W would sleep sometimes 14-16 hours a day; mostly caused by depression, but she started taking medication that helped a little, cut back to like 9-11/day. Apparently it isn't helping any more. It's also interesting that after being separated since 6/10, all of her problems haven't suddenly disappeared. Good to know! smile

I told D10 to just ask her when she woke up.