Hi etc, I would not recommend asking your stbx to go to see a movie anytime soon, as she needs space and time right now. It will just feel like pressure for her! I would back off a bit to give her some breathing room. I say go with a friend.
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M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.