Thanks both of you I'm hoping that he will still spend his money as he gets it and not be able to afford the D. I certainly won't be helping him along with money for lunches for my son anymore. It's funny how when he mentions D it makes you step back and think how much you've helped out and yet he still wants to go through it. When he said he couldn't afford it, I was relieved. I knew that it didn't change anything between us, but maybe he noticed the slight changes I don't know. Maybe like I said before, your subconscious makes you a bit softer. Oh well, once I've started putting a few boundaries into place he won't know what's hit him
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I'm hoping that he will still spend his money as he gets it and not be able to afford the D. I certainly won't be helping him along with money for lunches for my son anymore. It's funny how when he mentions D it makes you step back and think how much you've helped out and yet he still wants to go through it. When he said he couldn't afford it, I was relieved. I knew that it didn't change anything between us, but maybe he noticed the slight changes I don't know. Maybe like I said before, your subconscious makes you a bit softer. Oh well, once I've started putting a few boundaries into place he won't know what's hit him 