Update! My H just phoned, no mention of OW going to the wedding and I didn't mention it. I asked him if he had a nice time and how was his family. He asked if I heard from mine and I told him what my mum said on the phone. He said has my parents mentioned divorce and I said no. He said I am surprised, but I didn't tell him that I've told my parents to keep out of my marital affairs. He said that he'd better start saving again then for the D and I juat said if that's what you want. I went cold when he mentioned D, talk about change in temperature in both me and him! One minute he's all chatty, blah blah, you know the script! Anyway he is having my son over, but he's not picking him up until the evening. I said that's good as I was planning to take him to the cathedral city near us, so it's back to plan A. I'm really going to have to take drastic measures tonight to show him that I am capable of making changes, starting with the bookcase in the living room. Like I said - watch this space! MH, how did you keep up your friendship with your W even though she was planning to D you? At the mo I just feel like giving him a slap! I'm off over to your thread now to read about your bookshelf dilemma
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
