I feel for you formyfamily... I can remember being right where you are now. The pain was eminence.
Within a few day of my wife telling me she was done, She changed her FB status to single, stopped wearing her ring, called a realtor to begin the sale of the house, she is taking the boys with her, told me we may be friends later in life but not in the near future, and left open a email to a coworker indicating she was having a EA. All this 3 weeks before Christmas!
Exercise helped me a bunch for my mental health. It still is my saving grace.. that and the wonderful support from the people on this site.
You will find incredible strength you never knew you had along this journey. Its a wild roller coaster ride and it will get better.
Hi Maritimer,
Sorry for all that you have been through in such a small period of time. I cannot imagine how you must have felt. this week is crazy (I told you, I don't love you, I am looking for an apartment, next morning no ring, today got an email and he wants to talk tonight - will post the e-mail) This is crazy
I agree that this site is helping me a lot, and thank you for your support
Me 37 H 37 D9 D6 M9/ T12 ILYBINILWY 05/2013 Asked to S 06/13 Said he wants to S for sure 08/13 Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13) No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)