Thanks FY. W just transferred a gift to me which was very kind of her. I noticed in her email to someone else she referred to me as a "friend" . Yes, I need to accept that I am no longer her H and get used to this as hard as it is. That little boy inside just wants to scream!!! I just tell him, settle down... it will be OK .. we'll get through this.
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"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy