Still not heard from H. It's not fair as I need to make plans with my friends. My first friend cancelled, but I don't want to make any further plans until I know if my son is definitely going over or not. I can see myself going out on my own, hmmmm! Met up with my friend this morning for a coffee. She's got to go in for a disciplinary for work this afternoon. She's blaming herself for this, but in my opinion the other person is as much to blame as her! I was able to apply some of the DB principles and PMA principles to her this morning. She was much more positive about the disciplinary when I left her She is beginning to see it's not all her fault, which is a good thing You're right that I can apply 180 and DB to other parts of my life as well I had another social worker round this afternoon. She agreed that the assessment that was made last was very negative and she has changed it. She will be working with other organisations to put some things in place for my son Unfortunately my son doesn't meet the criteria for direct help from social services, but at least now he's getting signposted to others who can help him So all in all a much positive day Now all I need is to hear from H as to whether my son is going over tomorrow or not. That is stressing me out at the mo! At this rate my bottle of wine won't last a week, just a few days, lol. Can't you tell I get easily stressed, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
She is beginning to see it's not all her fault, which is a good thing 