What I see? She won't let go of her anger or see anything clearly because she is moving forward with her "plan". She has never resolved anything. Only in deluding herself.
Don't believe her...until you see it.
I personally believe there is always hope. It is a matter of where you draw your line in the sand.
My therapist, who met her once individually, said pretty much the same thing. She'd made up her mind a while ago. That she is not dealing with anything. That our problems are easily addressed. That she will come to regret never having tried to save our marriage, etc.
Until now, I have only had one line, a PA, which I still see no evidence of. Now I suppose it will be the day the divorce is finalized (should it come to that). I have deprived myself of the comforts of a relationship for far too long. That said, I don't see me ever getting married again. It seems so meaningless when one person can just walk away on a whim without making any effort to resolve things.
