She thought it was quite amusing that I'm going on a marriage forum and talking about British comedy programmes, lol.
Don't know about MH, but I find it gives a break from talking (and hence thinking) about my sitch. Nothing wrong with a bit of light relief And it proves we've got more in common than just the need to be on this forum in the first place.
I agree NQ It's our bit of GALing on here
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
lol MH I hear what you're saying I've often thought of having a girly pamper night round here, but I can't be bothered to organise anything, lol. Especially after I've been at college all day I get down when my H seems to be getting closer and then the next time I see him he's says something that makes me think no he's still not coming back! As I've said before I need to be ready for him to come back, he needs to be a better man and so do I! I don't want him turning up at the door with his suitcase, that would give me a heart attack, lol. I also want him to date me first so that we get to know each other again. Can you imagine if any of our spouses just turned up at the door with their suitcases, expecting to share the same bed with you that night and get intimate as if nothing has happened? That sort of happened with me the last time and I feel that this time round it's going to be very uncomfortable for me! Anyway here I am waffling on again! sorry about that
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Freeeeeedom! <-- <have to hear Mel Gibson as William Wallace in Braveheart yelling that.>
Imagine, an American-born actor who grew up in Australia playing a Scottish icon.
Lol NQ, some of the comedians over here have joked about that before!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
TTD, I hear what you're saying about acting like nothing happened. That happened with us last time, too.
NQ, that's a funny Mel Gibson summary. I liked Prince of Thieves at first. Then it started bothering me that he didn't even bother to do an English accent. Then again, maybe that's good. Some actors just can't pull off doing accents. Russel Crowe, I'm talking about you....
Speaking of Robin Hood. "Robin Hood: Men in Tights" anyone?!
When we went to the theatre last Saturday they were doing songs from the musicals and one of the songs was "men in tight". It was really funny and the lad sat next to me thought it was hilarious as he's gay, lol. Just mentioning men in tights has brought a smile to my face
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Maybe I should have called this thread "Plan C." That's what I feel like since Plan A and Plan B cratered.
Today had some ups and downs. I find myself getting a little miffed as I try to settle back down in this place that I was so eager to get out of just recently. Thinking of the hurt and bad things W did in leaving, and all that...
But... have no fear, fellow DBers! The trick is to handle these things in the new way, not my old way, right? Today, good old hard work was in order. Took a brisk bike right after a pretty productive day at work. I managed to do several loads of laundry, dust, and spray the carpet for fleas - the poor kitty did *not* appreciate being locked in the back room for that. She let me know about it!
The sad part was unpacking and re-shelving the DVDs W brought back over here. And I also moved all my books to an empty shelf in the living room that used to hold some of her collectible books. I also moved all the photo albums that are still here. But, sad as it was, I'm not going to sit around here surrounded by boxes, feeling sorry for myself. Next time she comes over, I'm going to have several items ready for her to take back with her if she wants, and I may have some stuff re-arranged as well.
Wow MH you've been busy! Well done I wish I had your motivation. My problem is I don't get to bed early enough as I hang around waiting for you Americans to come online, lol. It's my own fault. You're right it is easy to wallow in self pity, whenever I find myself doing that I try to snap out of it I find that if I've not heard from H for a few days or seen him, I begin to start seeing him in a different light. Then when I do see him again, I find myself forgiving him for all the hurt he's caused. Does that make sense?
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
And it proves we've got more in common than just the need to be on this forum in the first place. 
