Hi PM! Thanks for the drop in... always nice to meet someone new.


Originally Posted By: uRw
I wanted you to know I understand completely how hard it is to have a loveless marriage. Though it is not really loveless as I think she loves you deep down.


You know, a few people at the divorce support meet up asked me some questions. My answers follow:

Do you guys have kids? No.
Does she work? Yes, we both make about the same amount.
Is there any debt? No. House is paid for, no other loans, no credit card debt.
And she's still there? Yes, in her own bedroom.

Their immediate response: Oh, there's still something there. (her feelings for me) Kinda makes sense, even though she's making sure I don't feel it.

Originally Posted By: etc
Do you still interact with her a lot or is she basically living a life separately from you?


Interaction is hit and miss. She needs her space, and I give it to her. So, we do things together, (like meals and errands) but we also spend a lot of time separate, or together with few words. I've become comfortable with it. For now.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl