Here's the thing: Your excitement for your new life has to be genuine. She'll know if your just trying to impress her, and that will make you look pitiful.
VERY good point. As I've found, I do the GAL for me, not to impress anyone. I'm not going to play games.
Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung
While I understand that you don't want to fight the D, that doesn't mean you have to do the leg work or speed things along. In my mind, the more time that passes before the D is final, the greater the chance she will have a change of heart... especially if you play your cards right.
I believe we'll need to get legally S for a time in our state anyhow before D can be finalized. Not sure how to slow things down without dragging my feet. At this point, W is setting up our first appt. I want to get along through the entire process of course.
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
