OK, well, this is interesting. Since we've cleared the air that we're going forward with D and we've both agreed to be kind to each other throughout the process, we're now getting along like friends. We actually interacted as friends more today than we have in the past 3 mos. W seems much more at ease with me. So, now that the pressure is off and she knows that she's getting what she wants, it's like she's more open to a friendship. Is this ironic or what? Should I be trying to grow the friendship or become more dim? I feel like I can be friendly with her and still detached if that makes sense. Is this a good place to be? I feel like it's a sort of win-win at this point.
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
