What I see? She won't let go of her anger or see anything clearly because she is moving forward with her "plan". She has never resolved anything. Only in deluding herself.
Don't believe her...until you see it.
I personally believe there is always hope. It is a matter of where you draw your line in the sand.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.