Thank you all. Pudmuddle: so true, it is the smallest of things that set you off. 2old: it is exactly what I needed. F: Thank you heaps, we now have the verandah for those beers and sunset, overlooking the pool. I cannot offer the sheeps and cows at my house though. Good luck with the op if you get the chance to read before going.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.