Thank you all.
Pudmuddle: so true, it is the smallest of things that set you off.
2old: it is exactly what I needed.
F: Thank you heaps, we now have the verandah for those beers and sunset, overlooking the pool. I cannot offer the sheeps and cows at my house though. Good luck with the op if you get the chance to read before going.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.