Thanks JonF for replying! I keep trying to mind read and you're right I only driving myself crazy! When you step back do you notice her coming closer? What do you say when she says she wants to move in together? I wonder if we are too enthusiastic when they tell us they want to work on things. Maybe we need to keep our cool more and not scare them off again? Just a thought.
I wonder what makes them finally come to a decision about the marriage? If they are constantly going back and forth, what can we do?
Sometimes I am so confused as to what to do. I feel like I need to be open and welcoming when he is being affectionate. But then I feel like I don't want to be a doormat either and he can come and go as he pleases. What's the right balance?
