Hi Mimi, thanks fo replying to my thread. I see a lot of similarities between our sitch's as well. Considering our ages, we have no kids, and been with our husbands for a long time, and married for 4 years. It looks like the 3-4 year mark is common for people to get separated/divorced because of this stage in marriage where reality hits and one spouse wants out. I think the no kids thing doesn't help us either because they are not connected to us in that way.
I appreciate your feedback, are you going through the hot/cold phase as well? Where one minute they are wanting to work on things and the next they are bailing again?
I wonder if the best way to handle when they come close is not to get too excited, I think I scared my H off by asking if he wanted to try again to soon?
