I just need to get better at reading my w's signals so I can tell what is working and what is not.
Btw, I have been here before and I have received feedback that I should not try to figure out what my w is thinking; that leads to not being detached. But on the other hand, if I don't try to interpret my w's actions, how can I figure out if what I am doing is working or not?
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)
