Well I made a mistake I think. I was clarifying but it probably came off as reasoning. She understood her love language, "Quality Time" which I gave her in our early years of marriage but not during the last 5 years. She couldn't understand what my love language is and thought that I never really had true love for her so I clarified. I wasn't telling her that I love her but that I did always love her because my LL is, "Affirmation" as my primary with "Special Touch" as my secondary. She gave it to me all the time. I always felt wanted by her.
Anyway that's what I did. Hopefully it is not too much of a back slide. It will be my first since I started the LRT. Any thoughts?


Wife emotionally checked out 2 years ago
ILYBNLWY 2/1/2013
M-48, W-40
D-9
Living together in separation for daughter