It's pretty sad when he can't remember the day they were born. When he was there! When he is off with OW's illegitimate grandkids (her son seems to be a love em and leave em baby making machine) at Disney World yet hasn't seen his own kids for more than an hour in the past 12 years!
But we're busy making our own plans. Life is good here. She seems to be relieved to be away from Niagara where he still lives. I think, being there, it was much more obvious to her that he was only 10 min away yet never bothered to see her more than a couple of times a year. At least here she doesn't expect much. She did offer to come down so they could go out for her birthday but he didn't even respond.
Yes - it's better for Ryan that she is here. I will pay her to watch him at night when I'm away. It is better for him and she can use the extra $ - a win win situation.
