There's a pretty good chance he had been on the phone to her - he was texting somebody when I first met up with him. She just wasn't physically present to check the wound out so he had no choice other than either ask me to have a look or to just leave it and take his chances. Personally I think he should have listened to the cops and the paramedics last night, but that's just my opinion.
And of course, she probably isn't used to him coming home with battle wounds - LOL - and he probably doesn't want her worrying about him. I've had 16 years to get used to him getting bruises, cuts and scrapes when he's been working security, and even when he's not been actually working security - he's not afraid to get his hands dirty as it were if he can't talk them down, and he thinks nothing about stepping in whether he's on-duty or not if the situation calls for it. Unlike when I was policing, security can actually get physical with the punters and get away with it - I always had to use the gift of the gab to talk down feisty drunks or rely on the burly guy I was partnered with .
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- and he probably doesn't want her worrying about him. I've had 16 years to get used to him getting bruises, cuts and scrapes when he's been working security, and even when he's not been actually working security - he's not afraid to get his hands dirty as it were if he can't talk them down, and he thinks nothing about stepping in whether he's on-duty or not if the situation calls for it. Unlike when I was policing, security can actually get physical with the punters and get away with it - I always had to use the gift of the gab to talk down feisty drunks or rely on the burly guy I was partnered with 