Part of me feels that he is feeling guilty and only helping me move and saying "I'll always love you" out of guilt. He wants an easy transition out so he is still being nice to me.
I get this feeling too with my H. He has been VERY nice to me since coming home to BD in July. He says we'll "always be family", "call me if you need anything" I too think it's guilt, he thinks if he leaves "nicely", gives the "it's not you it's me" speech, I will be okay and will move on with not problems and his mind will be at ease. *sigh*
Sometimes I think doing DB allows the WAS to get away too easy, smh.
But I also know, I'd rather him see me strong and gain respect for me through my behavior, instead of my "acting crazy" because he abandoned me.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
