Thanks for the feedback MyNewStrength and Pud! I keep telling myself not to let his words or actions get to me, but it's hard not to. I'm living with my parents right now and they basically know everything that is going on. They keep telling me to move on and get a lawyer because my H's actions are telling me he is moving on with his life. I know they are right in some aspect, that his actions are telling me that he is moving on and not moving back towards the marriage. Am I delusional to think there is still hope? I guess I am trying to gauge where my H is at. I know that he still loves me, he has told me so, but he also has proven with his actions that he is trying to move on.
I'm trying so hard to hold it together and live my life. I know I need to GAL more and not let his actions affect me as much. I feel like the separation is getting worse. We used to see eachother a lot more and he was so affectionate and loving, and told me he wasn't sure what he wanted but was leaning towards working on us. Now he seems to be moving in the opposite direction, and we are seeing eachother less and less.
Do I just keep my distance and go dark for a while? Leave him to figure things out while I move on with my life? Why is this so hard, I wish I could just shake my H out of this, part of me feels like he is depressed and going through a MLC of sorts.
