Your comment about her behavior makes sense. But really if she is struggling why wont she want to try again, there are so many benefits for us to be a happy complete family.
Because she had a plan, and you are interrupting it. Tugging at her heartstrings and according to her that was not supposed to happen.
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DB have certainly helped me personally. Its always in the back of my mind if I should ask .. Do you want to try again? cant you see how awesome I have become? At least try for the sake of the children, they love us both so much. It hurts me, as it must hurt her to see them cry when I leave. That one of the hardest parts of this journey.
Things are going well for you so don't push by asking her right now. Be sensitive to the timing. I know you are and can do that.
I know it's heartbreaking to see what they do to children and they just don't seem to give a cr...care. That IS the hardest part, I agree. Very saddening.
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Time will tell how this will all play out. Ether way I am beginning to feel that I will be ok no matter what happens.
You WILL be ok!!! I know it.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
