Yeah true that Jon. And no I'm not following you, lol.
And 2nd, you had a terrific time with your W. And now you have put it out there for her to come over again. Have no expectations on if she will or if she won't.
I would detach ever so slightly just for her breathing room.
Sounds like you had a wonderful, enjoyable time connecting.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.