Last week my w invited me to her place for dinner but I couldn't go because I needed to feed my teenage kids. Later in the week she suggested we meet for drinks and food this past Tuesday. (Which we did) We had a good time and talked about spending more time together.

The house I live in is a home we remodeled together. She moved out before ever having a chance to enjoy the newly landscaped backyard. While we were together we talked about her coming over for dinner and enjoying the yard.

W is also having some reall issues with her work and is pretty desperate to find new employment. She seems to be needing emotional support that she is not getting elsewhere.

About an hour after we went our separate ways on Tuesday night w text me.

Her: thank you for an enjoyable nite!!! I really miss spending my nites with you. Good night, (my name - full rather than short version)

I text her back Wednesday morning

Me: I enjoyed seeing you too (her name). Come have dinner with me.

She has not responded, so now I wait. This brings me up to date.


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)