Yesterday I called him. I had to ask him to drop off something of mine. He was very cool and business like. Ouch. I said nothing. Right after I got off work, he called to apologize for his behaviour and told me I don't deserve that.
But this is the pattern, we have a nice talk/evening/date? where he opens up, then ba k behind his wall, I am treated like an unwanted customer, the apology and then days of silence. Wash, rinse, repeat.