Originally Posted By: 2old


"A very common mistake with LBSs is they think after a few weeks or months it's OK to start pursuing again, but it is NOT. The WAS will let the LBS know if they've decided to work on things, until then the LBS needs to give them tons of time and space and quit pursuing them and reminding them that they're waiting for them. It's clingy, needy, unattractive behavior when the LBS does that. The LBS needs to become strong, self-sufficient and independent like they were when they met the WAS. THAT is what is attractive to a WAS." (AS)


Thank you for posting that...


Me 37
H 37
D9
D6
M9/ T12
ILYBINILWY 05/2013
Asked to S 06/13
Said he wants to S for sure 08/13
Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13)
No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)