T, that sounds great, honest, fair and to the point.

And remember, her liking it of not liking it has nothing to do with you. Don't take it on.

And it's always good to get advice from a L.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss