They do run hot and cold and make sense one minute and then do the complete opposite the next. They are struggling internally with what to do and how to make sense of it all.

You really can't base how you will proceed off of their emotions and reactions at this point. Don't measure your success with what he is saying or doing, just keep doing the right thing. Remember what your ultimate end goal is and align your actions with that goal.

Hang in there, we are here to support you.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.