After thinking about what you posted, I have to disagree with you about me nagging. Just because I mentioned something to him numerous times over a two year period doesn't mean I am nagging him. Maybe I should have clarified a time period. Nagging to me and maybe I am wrong, is if I was constantly telling to do something all the time. I am not that way. For example, I will ask him to take out the trash and he will say okay, however the trash is stilling sitting there 6 hours later. I don't ask or say anything about it, I just do it myself.
I do have the book of 5 love languages, but I have not read it yet. I am reading, Should I Stay or Should I Go. It was recommended to me by my therapist friend.
